Why...(rant)

Why are so many girls on here in a rush to have a baby?? Especially when they're 13 or 14 years old?!! That just makes me sick. And the girls who are halfway done with school. Why not just finish it and then have a baby?? It's crazy.  Babies are exciting yes, but they are not something to be taken so lightly. they are a lifelong responsibility. You can't just say, "babies are so cute, and I like kids so I think I'll be a good mom, I think I'm gonna try to have one" meanwhile you're in the middle of high school. Once you have a baby, everything changes. Don't you want to be stable financially, emotionally, and mentally first so that you can provide everything for that child? It's so selfish to have a baby at such a young age or when you're not ready. I'm talking about the girls who are actively trying for a baby and they are not ready. I don't care how mature you think you are, or if your boyfriend has a job, when you're 13, 14, 15 years old you are NOT ready for a baby!! Please. Delete this app and stop TTC. This app is for women. You are babies yourselves. You have the rest of your life. Go be a kid!!!