Does anyone have any ideas on how to keep my boyfriend's spirits up? We decided to start trying in June. My last depo shot was in April. I got my period back in September and we've been trying since. While AF hasn't been here this month yet, I've had serious cramping so I highly doubt we'll have a BPC this month.

While we've been trying such a short time, he is getting really discouraged already, saying things like, "Well, if it hadn't happened yet, it's probably not going to. " I've tried pointing out it can take a year or longer, but it's no good.

Should I just keep quietly plugging away at things (pun intended) or try to encourage him? Thanks!