I am 18 closing in on 19 and I am engaged to my high school sweetheart weve loved each other since I was 13.while my friends are out partying im going to college working and trying to conceive a healthy child. All my friends say I need to slow down and enjoy life but I am wish everyone would understand that being a wife and a mother isn't the end of ur life its the beginning there's more to life than parties..Any other young women share my views? Is it wrong to want a wholesome family at my age? Is conforming to society made it wrong to do whats good?