Sex advice

My s.o and I have been together for over 6 years. Im really struggling with one specific aspect of us; sex. The struggle is that I desire sex and he really doesn't. I'm very lucky if we have sex one or two times a MONTH now. I dont really know anyone else that has this issue, because its normally the other way around, but im hoping there is someone that might understand.

Now a small part of it is because I need some sexual release. But the primary reason I desire to have sex is because of the passion and intimacy and oneness it makes me feel whenever we make love. He makes me feel special is a lot of ways and I know im loved. But there is a difference between knowing you are loved but lacking passion and intimacy. I would never cheat on him (this is not an way to fix this), because im truly devoted to us. How do you put intimacy and passion back into a relationship? How do we work thru this? Is there a way to get him interested in "making love" together again? How do I work thru this or help him find interest in sex again?

Advice please. And again this issue is not due to a lack of love...please keep this in mind.