Let me first say: I'm aware that people make their own decisions about when and with whom they share their bodies. This isn't me getting pissy about that.

Last night, I was watching tv and I heard a girl in a horrible situation... gang raped by 5 men when she was 15. I told my boyfriend how awful that was and he passed a judgment on the people involved (I'm not even going to touch on that subject, he was a dick). He then brought up his own experience with himself and 2 male friends with one girl, laughing about it. (Mind you, this was a consensual act, not rape)

Am I wrong for freaking out because I don't want to hear about this?! He has been with FAR more partners than I, which only bothers me because he used to mention that or different things he'd done which I do NOT want to hear about.

I went to bed upset and woke up, he was trying to cuddle but the thought of being near him just really upset me.

When he asked what was wrong, I told him and he said "well I'm with you now." Exactly! So why are you telling me about these exploits when I've made it clear I'm uncomfortable with it?

He then left, saying it was ridiculous for me to "let the past ruin the present." Wtf. I will get over this and mentally erase it (hopefully) but it's gonna take some time. Am I wrong for being upset?

Like I said in the beginning, you're a consenting adult, make your own decisions. Just don't tell your current girlfriend all about your shady past! 😠😣😢