Rude Comments

My mom has been getting used to the idea of me being a mom, and part of that is sharing the news that she will be a grandmother to friends and family. When my mom shared with our hairdresser (who we both go to), the girl said "that is NOT a good look for her!)...to which I almost actually cried over, having heard that response on the speakerphone. I literally cancelled my appointment. After that, my mom goes onto say "wow people don't know how to keep their mouth shut!" And continues on with telling me how when she shared that I was pregnant with her nail technician, she replied "HER?! she not pretty like you!", which also made me want to cry. I don't think I'm ugly, but I've always been a big gal always fluctuating between a 14 and 20, measuring in at a 16/18 when I became pregnant with my twins, which I'm worried will just make me even more unpleasant to look at. I really do think I have a nice face, and I've always been curvy and proportionate rather than lumpy, but people just think I'm ugly because I'm fat! And now I'm pregnant too. :/