Confessions- Doing the deed- are you guys still at it?

After ttc for a year and half we finally got our bfp in nov :) currently 13 weeks.

I keep reading things about how often women are doing the deed with their partners still. I have a confession, me abd my hubby havent got busy since the month we concieved. There, ive said it! I feel really really ashamed of it if im honest. 

Those first few weeks after we found out we were just so happy. To be honest it started off being nice having a break from dtd ever day/other day after ttc for such a long time. Then i began to become a bit worried as didnt want anything to cause anything bad to happen (even though i know sex is perfectly safe throughout most pregnancies).

Well now im 3 months and 1 week abd im starting to feel like a bit of a freak if im honest! I have talked to my husband about this and he seems fine with everything- he said he enjoyed the initial 'break' too as things had become very mechanical after 18 months ttc and now understands why i worry. To be honest, Before we began ttc we wernt at it like rabbits and prob only dtd once a week.. Not like the early days of several times a day ;) things just gradually slowed down over 13 years. I dont think of it in a negative way- we are happy abd nadly in love and sex just became less inportant it was wuality rather than quanitity ;)

My main concern is this... I really do want to start thinking about having sex again, its not terrible but i am starting to miss that intimacy and im sure my hubby must be starting to feel the same despite him saying its fine.  I know doctors say that it is safe in healthy pregnancies, but im worried that because we havent done it since i concieved 3 months ago (and i havent pleasures myself) my body isnt used to climaxing and the mechanics of sex. Any thoughts ladies? (Apart from 'what a mean wife!!')