Ok so my husband can't stop looking at half naked women on the Internet. Do I cut the Wifi off, or do you think that it won't help? Advice please.... Anyone else have this trouble?

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It is never ok for a married/committed man to lust after other women,  society and media have made it so hard for a woman to say "I'm not ok with him watching porn/checking out women" because they justify that that's just how men are wired.  Men are perfectly capable of being monogamous and it's a matter of respect and love.  I went through my own troubles with my husband,  but once we accepted god into our lives and we took the blinders off it became pretty clear why the divorce rate is so much higher nowadays.  Did our grandparents and great grandparents find it ok to have wandering eyes and wandering minds?  I know mine didn't!

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I would talk to him about it

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Half naked? As in porn? 
You should speak to him about your concerns don't take drastic action it only muddies the relationship. Be honest and open about how you feel and you may come to a better solution.

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You can cut the Wi-Fi but it won't solve the problem, but rather a symptom of the problem. If it's an addiction he'll find his way around the road block, ig magazines, movies, etc. I would discuss things with him.

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Maybe get parental settings to your Internet and set your google settings to safesearch, at least then it won't be so in your face at home. 
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​You need to tell him it's upsetting you and making you feel not good enough for him. He shouldn't just go and start looking at other naked women because he's not getting enough attention, he is not a child.

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I would say set up parental settings if he actually said he can't stop. Like it is an addiction. Otherwise, you aren't his mother and I think it would just cause more problems. Talk to him about how you feel!!

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Neither. Get counseling.

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The only problem i see is does he actually know or meet these girls if not stop worring

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I dont know, I actually love watching porn with my husband.

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Jessica,  you are a married woman.  He is your husband,  and it doesn't mean your "insecure" or "jealous" when you ate uncomfortable with your husband watching porn.  He wants something stimulating?  Tell him to take you on an adventurous date!  He feels like he isn't getting enough affection from you?  Of course he would feel that way because these porn stars put this ridiculous Idea In his head that all women should be like porn stars- always turned on and ready to cater to the man's every lusting need.  These porn stars don't promote self worth for women,  they don't respect women as human beings with needs and feelings,  in porn women are viewed as a piece of meat.  And to be honest a grown woman shouldn't allow this to be the standard. those who try to mimic the looks and actions of these porn stars and allow themselves to be Manipulated into thinking they're being a "cool wife" by allowing this in their home are only fooling themselves. Eventually you'll be old and wrinkly,  how will you keep up with these new young things?  Better yet,  why do u do that to yourself?  Men will do exactly what you allow.  Up the standards of respect in your relationship,  you're a wife,  a woman,  a treasure,  not a forever young sex machine.

Ok so my husband can't stop looking at half naked women on the Internet. Do I cut the Wifi off, or do you think that it won't help? Advice please.... Anyone else have this trouble?

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