Am I the only one?

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Ok. I'm an asshole. I just sometimes have the most AWFUL thoughts which I really don't mean but they just pop in there! Like thoughts I would never actually admit to thinking (hence the anon... Yup being a scared baby).
So today I found out my friend miscarried. And I was thinking "serves you right". WHO THINKS THAT!?!? Jackass me. She has just been horrible and snooty and "I'll be a better mother than all our friends because...." And not in a happy excited way but just in a condescending way and my mind totally just slipped the thought in there. Please make me feel better and let me know I'm not alone in this... Anyone?

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Everyone thinks inappropriately bad thoughts at some point. If not they are a liar, an alien or a robot.

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Recognizing that it's a messed up thought is the key here ...

We all think awful things at some point, some of us recognize it's messed up and feel bad about it, others don't realize it at all, and other (truly horrible people) repeat those terrible thoughts out loud.

You're on the best group here, just remember how awful that thought is and don't allow yourself to agree with it!

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It happens and is normal   That's your inner most unfiltered thoughts

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I feel this way too sometimes. A girl I know "accidentally" got pregnant twice now and miscarried twice(she purposely got pregnant to keep her man) and I wanted so badly to say maybe this is a sign you shouldn't be pregnant! She's in a relationship where they fight all the time they have no money and a kid already but I kept my mouth shut...

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You're not the only one, I'm like that too.

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I honestly do not think this is normal. It is hateful. It is unimaginable for me to think "serves you right" when anyone is experiencing a hardship.

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I've had some awful, spiteful, thoughts. They happen even when we don't mean them

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Just an hour ago I was thinking "I should jump out of this car while we are on the highway, then he will stop playing this stupid song" and then laughed because I realized that's b*tchy of me.

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We all get distorted thoughts. If I don't sleep? good God!

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You're human! It would be a different story if you said it out loud!!

Am I the only one?

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