I used to hear all the time "ew, you think HE is cute?!" And this led me to believe I had a type. I now look back and wonder if that's true. My fiancé is tall, thin, and pale. I think he is gorgeous and I truly love him. So the question is, do we women narrow down our men the first round by "our type" then proceed to getting to know these men and picking from them? OR are we attracted to them because of something else and as visual creatures stick their image with our memory of infatuation and THEN use that to find another match?