We have lost two babies, one in early pregnancy (5-6 weeks) and our second at 16 weeks.  Even though I never gave birth to these babies, I still consider them my children, my angels with God. Now I'm pregnant again, and whenever I see doctors/nurses anywhere (that aren't my regular office visits) they are always super excited and ask me if its our first. And my first reaction is to say yes, and my second reaction is to want to say no, but the other babies didn't make it. I also don't want to explain to everyone our situation everytime, but at the same time I feel guilty not acknowledging my other babies. What do you ladies do? Or are you never asked this question?