First month of us TTC

I tracked everything except bbt. I ovulated the 15th and we had sex every day leading up to it, not on the 15th, but every day after. I really thought it worked and that I was pregnant! My period was a week late and I had breast tenderness, which never happens. But I kept wanting to wait to test but took 3 with BFNs 😞. I experienced a little bit of spotting after some deep penetration and thought maybe he irritated my cervix or something. Then yesterday we went on an 8 mile hike and I spotted a little more immediately after. Then early this morning I felt myself bleeding and went to the restroom and I had started. This is our first try like I said but it is so discouraging. I really hope I can get pregnant. This is so much harder than it seems and I resent every single time that my elders and teachers, etc. said that it only takes one time to get pregnant. 😔