How to become confident?

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My Boyfriend does all the work when having sex and I want to ride but when it gets to where I'm on top or a position where I can I chicken out and won't. I know he would like for me to but he won't say anything and I want to cause I enjoy pleasing him as he does me! How can I not chicken out?

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Just do it. Take the lead and make it as enjoyable for you as it would be for him.

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To be confident youve gotta think confident

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Just do it.
Fake it til you actually are confident. It's no big deal. He's not going to push you off or laugh at you if you aren't great at it at first. If it helps, put on music so you can keep rhythm. Ask him to guide you. My first few times, my husband held my hips and guided me. Very hot, and helpful

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Embrace your sexuality darling :) if he didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't!  Basically all you have to do is swallow those nerves, hop on him and your body will kind of fall into a rhythm... Maybe not right away, but after a few times you'll totally catch on.  Also,  he doesn't have to ALWAYS do all the work even if you aren't on top.  If you're on your back just grind your hips/pelvis into him has he thrusting, if you're in doggy (my personal fave) rock you body back and forth meeting him thrust for thrust. But above all just believe in yourself, and completely and totally embrace your sexuality :) I finally got the courage up a few years ago to let my inner minx out of her cage, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made!

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My husband doesn't say anything while I'm on top.. Hell any position really. If he's lasting then he's enjoying lol that's the way I see it. My husband does communicate with body language by kissing me, grabbing my bum, my boobs and etc.

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In all honesty, if you're taking the lead, he's not gonna give a crap what you're doing up there. He's just watching your boobs bounce. Have fun, do what feels good for you. I guarantee he won't be complaining.

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my man tells me, that my self-confident behavior in sex is the best part of my attractivity. Don´ t be afraid and make your fantasies come true. That is the real intimacy between you two. Show him your love and your lovemaking.

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Thank you guys! I just need to grow a pair! Haha

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I use to be the same and some times I don't even like being naked infront of my now husband but girl durning sex they don't care just do it !

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I have this issue all the time with trying new things. Basically I try to really be in the moment and trust my partner. Half the time something weird happens while I'm figuring stuff out but we end up just laughing it off. After I figure out what I'm doing I end up doing it again no problem; just have to get over the initial feel of not know what to do. Hope any of that helps!

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