Ok i know I'm ranting...

I love my husband and respect what he has to say but I feel like my feelings are getting repressed. We have one daughter and I would love to have at least one more for her to have to have someone to play and grow up with besides all of us adults in the house. She's not really a social person so she doesn't like to make friends. I have talked to him about it and he gets mad like I have asked him to give up everything. We were 18 when we had her...I know young but we are still going strong. Due to health issues of his father we still live with his dad. And he seems to think he has "control" over what happens in our relationship and I can't stand it. But what can I do? We can't leave because of his health. And I can't find it in my heart to even ask to choose between his dad's feelings and mine. It's not right...I know I'm just upset and ranting...