Friends with benefits?

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So I'm a virgin and me and my bf recently broke up and I'm kind of feeling like virginity isn't even a big deal anymore?? and I know this guy that wants to be my FWB. Should I do it or is this just a really bad idea? I mean I'm on the pill and I'll use a condom and everything. Idk help me

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It sucks. You can sit there feelig lonely after & you can get attached sooo fast.. It's not fun. Been there done that.

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The preciousness of virginity is a social construct and frankly not anything special to lose. While normally I'd say go for it, make sure this guy understands you are a virgin and to be gentle. It should NEVER hurt the first time, unless he is too large for you, so make sure you're nice and wet before any actual intercourse.

But the other commenters are correct, you may develop feelings for this guy. So please keep that in mind before going any further.

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Don't do it! U can easily feel used don't PLS done its your first time your worth way more than a guy that only wants u for one thing

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How old are you? 
I was 17 and had been with a guy for 3 years and never slept with him. Then I got with an older guy and "dated" for a month. he took my virginity while I was drunk. After that, I became much more sexual. I didn't care who I did it with, or where. Now, with my current SO who wants to marry me, I don't drink, and our sex is full of love not rape vibes. I wish I hadn't slept with so many people (5 to me is a lot... I don't like admitting it).... but he definitely has slept with more lol. 
I can't say I regretted losing my virginity that way, because it was what made me happy at the time... honestly I wouldn't change a thing, because every stupid thing I did led me to wear I am now! :)

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Go for it!

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Just dont get emotional about it/the sex/him. Because he sure as hell wont and you dont want a second heartbreak!

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