Any wives/gfs/finances of ex military

Just looking for someone to talk to, my fiancé and I had a argument that escalated into him getting drunk and wanting to kill himself. I am 8 weeks pregnant and now having to struggle with my fiancé who is ex navy and has been in combat a whole bunch and seen a lot on top of a drinking problem,  we have not been together that long which is both our faults and I never knew of this deep dark secret. My son and I have moved out temporarily and I am taking my fiancé to be evaluated Tuesday which may mean he will be in rehab for a while and may end up losing everything...I'm pretty stressed to the max and honestly have no one to speak to so i figured I would reach out on here to see if anyone can in a way relate.....thanks