Okay just letting any of you who aren't married and have friends that are LEAVE THEIR MARRIAGE ALONE. What they go through is not your business and unless your friend is seriously in danger or getting cheated on just stay out of it. Don't knock someone's marriage especially your friends and don't expect them to chose your word over his. If she truly loves him she will stand by him and your an awful friend for trying to challenge that. Bottom line unless your friend is being hurt or in danger stay out of their marriage and don't talk shit about their husband. If they aren't meant to be together they'll figure it out on their own but don't try and get between it!