I'm with this guy of almost 3yrs now. But I was with my ex boyfriend and we were engaged and this ur would have been 10yrs together but he went to jail in 2010 and I started seeing my bf now but I miss my ex so bad. Me and him have more in common than my BF now. I hate hurting ppl I care about but I'm not happy like I used to be. And my ex has a gf but she is a fuc*ing crazy and has a kid with a different guy and she goes out to the club/bars and trips on shrooms. But I miss my ex soo bad I'm still in love with him!! What should I do? What's the best way to let someone go when you can't stand hurtin ppl.