How do you know when your boyfriend trying to ignored you

Cynthia
Before me and my boyfriend started dating , we were friends for 3years. Now that we are dating it's different. When we are together we can't get away for each other. But when we are away he never texts me and when we do texts he treats me like a friend . And he never holds my hand when I'm with him . He only time he holds my hand is when his friends are around. Is this normal?