As the months go by I'm noticing more and more of my Facebook friends getting pregnant. I can't get pregnant on purpose while they are getting pregnant on accident. I always believed that you should try to get settled in life before kids which is why I have a place, car, moral support, some financial security, a committed long term relationship and I just obtained my associates or science, but then I see these girls who are struggling and some are homeless and it makes me wonder what I am doing wrong. Or if this is just punishment for something that I've done in life. So frustrating.