I'm in my prime and my husband is losing interest in sex. I don't know what to do. It's driving me crazy. Anyone else have this problem?

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My husband and I are ttc, but he's always too tired from work. He says he's getting old. [He's 34] I am in my prime right now and I want it everyday. [I'm 33] I've never had a problem with turning a man on until now. He does still have sex with me a lot,  but I am getting bored with it because he is so quick.  What should I do?

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I am in the same boat. I'm 33 and my husband is 35. I am constantly wanting to have sex but almost always he finds a reason not to. It's very frustrating

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Similar issue myself im 33 as well.  He just turned 33. Do we have an increase on our sex drive the older we get? I never thought men lost the urge lol but it seems to be common.

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I am 36 and DH is 35. We have the talk a lot about how he is okay with infrequent sex and I am not! Sorry I don't have an answer, I can just empathize! Good luck! Keep talking about it to try to resolve it!

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Maybe he's seeing the sex as ttc and not love making and it's stressing him out or maybe he's genuinely tired?

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Try to make it exciting...and less focus on the TTC part. I feel it puts pressure on them and they are less inclined to participate. Toys? New lingerie? Role playing?!

I'm in my prime and my husband is losing interest in sex. I don't know what to do. It's driving me crazy. Anyone else have this problem?

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