Does it ever get easier

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One minute I feel okay and just getting on with things and next minute I just want to break down. First day back at work tomorrow since my miscarriage just over a week ago and I'm dreading it. 😔.

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You are not alone. I lost my angel baby girl at 12 weeks pregnant and it will be 2 weeks on Wed since she left my body. I teach fitness classes and I'm going back today and wondering 'how the hell am I going to act all happy and peppy?'. All we can do is take one day at a time. Peace to you

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Hi Carly,

Sorry for your loss. What you said about being ok one minute to being a wreck the next is exactly how I felt too. It does get easier , DH and I have also gone on healthy diets and exercising moderately in order to get ourselves in best ttc shape. GL x ☺.

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I just keep waking up and thinking my tummy is going to be bigger but then I remember. Hoping one day soon I will wake up and feel that positive onwards and upwards feeling. Thank you for all your comments. It is so nice being able to say how you feel on here without the feeling that your a broken record. I know my oh and friends are all there for me but I feel guilty for chewing their ear off all the time.xx

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Just take it one day at a time. That is how I am dealing with it. I had a MC in October. And most days are good. But there are still some hard times.

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Well the doc said to wait for my first cycle so we plan to do that. I have another appointment this Friday to make sure all has passed as I still had a little left last week.

Me and my fiancé don't use protection and don't plan to even before my next cycle so if it happens earlier then so be it. So long as I have got the all clear in terms of not getting infection etc. hoping my cycle comes in February though when I would have been due it.

Are you waiting one cycle or two? I guess I'm asking why March? Or are you just giving yourself time to re cooperate?xx

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Thanks Adriana. It definitely makes you think about the things we take for granted in life, even down to the shitty food we eat. My fiancé and me are on a strict diet now. Have banned caffeine for him too. I just look forward to getting the all clear from the doc this week. Hoping we both get a little sticky bean soon. Here if you need to talk too.x

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It's been over a year since my miscarriage and I still have my bad days. I cry and then take a couple deep breaths. It does get easier though if you allow it. I promise.

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I feel like you in a sense get used to the pain and emptiness. It's been a month for me, I lost my baby at 17 weeks and I feel like I lost a part of myself when I lost him. I am trying my hardest to get back into normal routines, but I have my sad and bad days. I cry all the time it seems but it's okay to cry. It's so sad and terrible we are going through this, but we are human. It's a human experience, nothing I would ever wish upon anyone, all we can do is move forward.

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I am starting a healthy died to but you want to know something. With our first it was a surpize i didnt know i was pregnant for a month ish and i was living my life i was about 3 years younger still going out. I had one or two drinks, smoked, didnt even know what prenatal vitamins were, my diet wasnt the best i was around 115 lbs heavy until i took that first pregnancy test. But all those things didnt stop us from havinf a healthy baby that is now almost 2. 
With this pregnancy we planned it, i took prenatals before we started TTC, changed my diet didnt drink didnt smoke and we lost the pregnancy. 
I think sometimes we over do it and we just need to stop worrying to much and just let it happen. Lets hope  for the best.

When are you thinking of TTC again? Were starting after march i hope depending on how regular my periods are after this d&c

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Sorry for your loss. It does get easier if you keep yourself busy but even then thoughts can creep your mind. Im 3 weeks past and it feels like yesterday. Made me be more aware of death and made me apreciate being healthy and having a healthy family. Learn how to cherish every second of life and remember to stay strong. You will get your rainbow baby soon. Im here if you need me to talk.

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