So as of right now I live with my parents rent free with my husband my knows were married but dad doesnt. I wanna tell my dad but my husband isn't willing to do so. I'm traditional too where my husband needed to ask for my hand in marriage but of course I'm a rebel and didn't do that. So all my family doesn't know. I wanna move out and have my own house but he doesn't Wanna live on post and rent is crazy expensive off post. I'm I just suppose to sit here and wait till he gets stationed where we would have to get housing. And plus im still havent got a military ID card ot any kind of benefits. I need words of wisdom from you military wives.