What should i think

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Today we was watching the news and my boyfriend said he wanted to see light skin ass on TV abs he said if he see other sexy women he gone look and if they attractive he looks what should I do I think that's disrespectful

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Holy Run on sentence😂. Sounds like he's trying to get you to react while being a jerk. He needs to get dumped

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Imo...There is a difference between looking and admiring beauty, and being disrespectful. My husband freely will say he thinks another person is attractive and he'll even ask if I agree. He's told females in front of me they have pretty eyes, hair, etc. I do the same to him. We have no issue admiring the beauty found in other people. But that's it. No gawking, no drooling, no contact. I let him be him. He found females attractive long before me, (just like I found people attractive before him) it doesn't change. But I'm the one he wants and who he's with....for going on 12 years.

If you feel disrespected, there is a huge problem that you have to address with him. That should be his number one priority. But at the same time, you may be being a little sensitive (not trying to disrespect or offend you). Sit down and talk to your man. He says he was joking, could be true, but you don't "joke" about something that hurts your mate. He should work on considering your feelings, even of he doesn't understand them, and you should address anything inside that makes you feel insecure. I truly wish you the best of luck.

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I don't think it's that big of a deal. It's women on TV. I don't think anyone should have so much control over their other half to the point that they basically can't even watch tv with you in the room without being hollered at for looking at a hot woman on TV who plays a character on a show or in commercials or whatever.

I'm not trying to sound mean but it seems a bit extreme.

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I understand you. Me and my husbands relationship is different. We are 100% faithful to each other, our relationship is not open. But we are extremely comfortable with each other, and completely honest. We understand that finding some one attractive has nothing to do with connecting with that person in anyway. For us, it brings us closer because he doesn't have to hide anything. Especially something he can't control. You can't control if you find someone attractive, you do have complete control over your reaction or response to that attraction. My husband is free to express himself and his opinions about everything, and so am I. We respect each other so it's never done in an inappropriate way on either part. We have survived almost 12 years and we are just as in love as the beginning.

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Yeah cause I know guys gone look but he can do it in his own time or be respectful

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Guys look. They all do. 
Maybe tell him to be respectful of your feelings and not comment about it or make it obvious in front of you. If he can't do that at least, drop him.

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