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Thanks to all of your oppinions. When we talked about it in past he said we could try and have a baby but he would never go to a sperm place. I have however heard there is a over counter test u can do at home. If he denies that then that leaves me no other choice but to go downtown and look for a scar... I don't want to bring up the same question I've asked in past to upset him if isn't true. But if I do see scar after he test negative on sperm count I will be really upset and emotionally destraugt.
What do i do?:/
My husband and I have been together for almost 10yrs. We do not have any kids together but he has 7. I asked him if he had a vasectamy he said no. We have been trying for 5yrs now. Someone just came to me and said they heard he did have a vasectemy... Im loosing my mind. He works out of town so I'm trying to hold it in until he gets home in 2weeks. What do I do
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I'd make an appointment for when he gets back and go to a fertility clinic where they would test the quality of his sperm, if he doesn't have any or makes an excuse not to go then I would ask him why you heard that he got a vasectomy and if he did why he wouldn't be honest about it. If you want a child of your own it's wrong, manipulative and unfair for him to say that he's trying when he knows that it's not likely to happen.
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but then again, I have been in a lot of relationships where guys lie all the time, so if you trust him then talk to him and make the suggestion and decision to go to a fertility clinic together or ask if he would consider other options like going to a sperm bank, etc.
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