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Okay.. so, i'm 17 and so is my boyfriend.. we've been together for 4 months and one week, lately we've been talking about sex, i'm still a virgin but i'm scared about the pain.. will it hurt? I really want to do it but i hate pain. Any advice?

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Advice:

1. Make sure he is the man that you are truly in love with. It's fine to sleep with someone you don't love, but considering that you're a virgin, you want to make sure that you can trust him with everything and that both of you are on the same page.

2. Talk about it. Talk about what you like, what turns you on. If you masturbate quite often, let him know and tell him what you would like him to do, based on what you do.

3. Always communicate and always always always stay on the same page. If something hurts, do not continue, it's hurting for a reason. If you don't like something, or if it's making you uncomfortable, tell him to slow down or stop. If he respects you, he will do it for you and your body.

4. Starting off, make sure to have plenty of lubricants. Sometimes it's the dryness of the lady parts that can cause discomfort and swelling and pain. My advice for this is to do plenty of foreplay before the actual intercourse. Sex is just like going to the gym and working out. You can't walk in and start lifting weights or running. You will end up sore and in pain. You must stretch and drink plenty of fluids before working out to avoid these pains. Same with sex.

5. Pee before and after sex and drink plenty of fluids, this is just to avoid UTI (urinary tract infections)

6. Last but not least, this is optional, but cuddle after you complete the act of love and again, talk about it. Talk about improvements and more about what one another likes :)
I hope this helps!

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It's uncomfortable just alittle painful but it's not so bad that you never want to do it again in your life. My advice is wait if your really that scared and to be relaxed when you do go for it. Oh and if your wet or lubed up it'll help you.

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Lmao it hurts so fucking bad.. just being honest

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If it hurts, there wasn't enough foreplay to get you going. 
If you aren't comfortable with it yet, let him know. 
If you trust him, and there's enough foreplay beforehand, you shouldn't need lubricants. Your lady parts should be able to make enough :P
But FOREPLAY IS VERY IMPORTANT. And use a condom or some form of contreception/birth control.

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