Keep or leave??

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So I've been dating a guy for 3 years. I really love him and care about him. But some of the things he does really bother me and worry me about our future. (Smoking sigarettes, staying up all night and sleeping all day, not working out and eating healthy) I've talked to him about it but he doesn't seem like he wants to change him habits. If he keeps doing those things I don't see a future for us. What should I do about it?? Comments would help !

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If you have to ask you already know the answer

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Honestly there are worse things he could be doing! But I can see though how laziness is unattractive. It's not worth breaking up over, but rather talking about it or giving him an ultimatum of some sort. Help motivate him by going to the gym together, taking walks, hiking, or get into a routine at night for a while drinking sleepytime tea and watching a movie. Sleepytime tea is good btw and helps with sleep so maybe he'll go to bed sooner! 
As for cigarettes I can't say much since I smoke and it annoys me if my significant other tells me to stop since it's my choice. But to each their own :)
Communication is key. And he flat out tells you he won't work on it or attempt to then consider a break or something along those lines. 
Hope it gets better for you 👍❤

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Love makes you want to be better to see that person happy. If he's not even trying for you, it isn't worth trying for him. Reevaluate your relationship and you'll be able to answer that question yourself

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Honestly, if that's how he chooses to spend his precious time here on earth, I think it's a reflection of his values, which aren't going to change easily, if at all. If that's not how you want to live your life and raise your children, I say bail. And bail sooner rather than later.

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You know answer already that sounds like a few things he needs to change that your not happy about 
Does it out way the list of things you like ? 
And you can't expect a person to really change I'd hate for someone to wana change me

Keep or leave??

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