I'm only 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and 20 in June.. He knows how badly I want children,I'm not expecting to have them now till I have a career and my school finished but he thinks children ruin your lives. It upsets me because I think children are little miracles and I can't wait to have a family. I have been dreaming about a family since I was a little girl,I use to plan out what I would bring when I took my child out,etc. I don't know why he feels that way but he said he wants children in the future but got such a negative attitude toward it. We don't have relationship problems,we are great but this makes me mad.