I feel so sad that I can't share my pregnancy! The reason being when we found out with our second one we shared it and got so much negativity... I ended up losing the baby at 36 weeks due to a placental abruption.  I can't help but feel it was because of the negativity. Especially when the doctors can't explain why it happened. So we are afraid to share it. I just stay home and just visit my mom... My family knows because they were always positive and happy about it... I just wish everyone would be happy. Sometimes I don't even understand why people get upset that we got pregnant. We've been together for 14 years, we are married and have our own place! But his family isn't happy that I don't work. Mind you I stopped working because my husband preferred I stay home with the kids. It's just such a weird situation... And I will never ever understand it. Rant over!