Would you allow you daughter to have a sleep over with her boyfriend?

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She is 17, (18 in 3 months) while her boyfriend is 18. They have been together for 2 years.

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Yes, think about it this way, they have been together for 2 years and there is nothing they can do at night that they can't do during the day.
​It is so nice to sleep next to the one you love, I'd allow it,

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For all of those who said "yes" YOU GUYS ARE SO LUCKY, ARE THE GREATEST PARENTS EVER OR WILL BECOME THE GREATEST PARENTS EVER! I grew up in a strict house that barely let me sleep over at my best friends house, none the less my boyfriend !

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I'm curious as to why people are saying no. What are the reasons?

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My mom lets my younger sister who's 17 sleep over at her boyfriends and let him sleepover,in the same bed. They've been together for almost three years also just like me and my SO and I think it's perfectly fine :)

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I've been with my bf for almost 4 years and I haven't slept over with him. I think it sounds really nice but I just don't want to tempt myself with anything. We are committed to waiting for sex until marriage, but we still don't want to put any temptations in our path. I know this has no significance for those who are ok with sex before marriage, but I personally don't want that. I don't think it's wise and I don't think it's edifying.

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As a parent I would have to say no. By allowing my child (male or female) to sleep over at their SOs house makes it look like I approve/don't care what they could be doing. Being that age and being together that long I am sure, depending on the couples values, that they probably have already had sex. But by allowing them to sleep over a parent is condoning that behavior.

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I think it depends on what your ok with them doing by letting them have a sleepover your condoning sexual acts and if your ok with that then yes it's fine but if not you should rethink it

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Yes! Just let her do it. (: If you are afraid of her having sex, or something, realize that if she was waiting she would still would wait and if she's not--then there's nothing you can do to stop it. I am waiting for marriage and had countless numbers of sleepovers with my boyfriend and it was the best thing ever! It is so lovely to be able to fall asleep with the one you love. (:

Would you allow you daughter to have a sleep over with her boyfriend?

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