I'm at the point in my life where I really want to have a baby. My bf is the type of person that has to plan everything out frist, he wants to wait another 5-10 yrs I'm 26 now and I wanted to have kids before I turned 30... He knows I no longer use birth control and he doesn't wear condoms... So he doesn't want kids now but we're not doing anything to prevent them... His sister gave me the ok to " accidentally" get pregnant... I feel like I'm being selfish but I can't always out his needs a head of mine either I don't what do!