Pregnancy groups pros and cons

So I'm part of a fb group for close due dates. While I love being able to go on at any point and ask questions and support others, I have noticed a few negatives. 
1. It's really sad when pregnant moms post clot pics or say their bleeding and talk about low hcg levels. My md won't even see me until my first ultrasound which is the 24! I'm 5 weeks now!!!!! It's driving me nuts! I'm scared shitless from those posts. 
2. Moms who post every single vomit episode or symptom!!!! Honestly I get that you are excited as am I, but the constant posts really?
3. Your drama with spouse/ friend/ family. It's not the place for it.
4. Claiming to have seen heartbeats when they truly are way too early to have.
5. Bashing. For example one mom was asking about names and I commented saying I have a silly superstition and felt I was ready to get I to names until I wasnt further along. I got called negative and judged! It's not negativity I'm just nervous! 
6. Claiming you have a belly already! It's bloat! No one shows at 6 weeks! You baby is the size of a chocolate chip!