I decided to test because when I rolled over during my sleep I felt that twinge of the muscle I always pull when I am pregnant. So I got up and tested and got my bfp. After having two consecutive miscarriages I am deciding to not tell anyone. Even my fiance. He didn't handle my mc's well so I'm afraid if I mc again it would be too much for him. I can handle it on my own. It just seems like once the cat is out of the bag I end up mc'ing. So am I wrong to want to keep it hush hush until 12 weeks?