Fifty shades of grey

I just watched the movie and i have to say that i loved it. I went in thinking that it was going to be as bad and abusive as people said that it was,but honestly it wasnt that harsh. Sure there was a part where she was crying but she brought it on herself since she asked him to do it and you could see the look of pain on his face when he stopped so it wasnt like he did it for his own pleasure. I dont think that its abuse and if you read the other 2 books i think that you can agree.