We have been trying a few months and nothing and I know it's ok and it will happen eventually. But of course my cousin has her baby today ('accident') and I'm going to yet another baby shower today for another girl who wasn't trying and I'm getting so jealous over here with AF. And I hate feeling like that, it's such an ugly feeling. I know it's bad and childish spare me the lecture bc that's all I'm saying to myself. I keep saying it's going to happen but I'm having trouble shaking it. It's hard standing in the baby aisle picking out gifts for others. I think it would have made it easier if they actually wanted babies and were trying but I'm over here married, money saved, waiting for one and nada. Any tips? Anyone on the same boat?