RELATIONSHIP HELP!?!

I have been with my husband for 6 years, married 5 months. He is slim on affection and attention and doesn't really like to get out, our sex life/being affectionate days are few and far between. I feel I am different I enjoy getting out and  I need attention and need to feel like I am wanted. I want to make this better, but a part of me has this grudge towards him and his lack of ability to open his ears and listen to my needs! Suggestions/help!???? I am desperate!!