Hey ladies I'm 9 weeks ppd and I haven't had sex yet. I had a episiotomy and they left a little flap and every time I go number two it rips bleeds. My ob has seen it and said I should wait to see if it heals. Has anyone had this happen to them? I get my merana in the first week of March and I want to have sex with my so it's been too long and I miss him. Does it hurt worse then your first time? In scared to do it. Please comment on your expriance