I spent 7 years with a guy. We got pregnant by accident 6 months into our relationship. He was so mean and disrespectful. We were both scared, and he begged me for an abortion. I got on birth control and we split up a few years later for a few months. We got back together and I was still on bc,I got pregnant. AGAIN.he begged me for an abortion. I was so mad,I almost let my hormones take over and do some serious damage. I decided to get on the iud. I was on it for 5 years. I just got it out on January 21st. I'm with a subsequent, amazing, loving, sexy and perfect man. We're ready. I hope I will be able to conceive. It's a huge fear of mine. Anyone else have a similar story with a good outcome??