My boyfriend has herpes. TTC. Advice please?

My boyfriend had cheated in the beginning of our relationship, I found out months later. I also recently found out he has herpes. I am waiting for approval for Healthcare so I can get tested. We had been TTC. I had conceived early in our relationship but miscarried at 7 weeks. We have been TTC since then (about 9 months) with no luck. Since I found out about him having herpes we have minimal sexual contact and always with a condom. I am scared to continue TTC but I am beyond ready for a family.

I need advice, if I do already have herpes how do I go about TTC?

Also, if I do NOT have herpes how do I continue TTC?

Thank you so much