Need to rant

Does it annoy anyone else when people complain about their pregnancy, like being sick or forgetful, or complain about their struggles with their kids?? (being up all night with a sick baby is one I hear often) I feel like no one talks about how frustrating it can be TTC. People don't think about how what they're saying can be hurtful to others. I never understood the struggles until I had my miscarriage. Sometimes I want to respond to these people and say just be thankful that you are able to get pregnant because for some women its very difficult if not impossible. Maybe I'm being bitter but I just feel like we should be able to talk about this more openly