Just need to vent

The last two weeks have been very stressful. A week and a half ago I found out I was pregnant with our first on a Friday and by the following Thursday found out I lost it. The day I lost it my cat started having his urinary issues (on going problem through his life) and I have to bathe him because he's been peeing on himself twice a day. We are on day five of this. I love my cat and don't wanna lose him too but I can't handle the stress and on top of it new project at work. I know I need to find a better way of dealing with the stress by next month we start trying again but I feel the world is against me at the moment.