Am I moving too fast? ❤️💏💑😘😍

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I'm so into this man! We have been talking over the phone and oovoo everyday for a month! I'm growing strong feelings! We live in two different states. He lives in my hometown. We are meeting up this weekend! I know it's too soon for these feelings! I think about him all day! I'm on his instagram when we are not talking on the phone. He actual listens to me! I've honesty can say I've never met a man like him! He's nonjudgmental, God fearing, ambitious, caring, and funny! He is the type of man that I pray for as a husband. Am I moving to fast??? If so how can I slow it down!

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You are a little fast, but it is acctually pretty normal. Just try to take a deep breath and remember you still barely know him.

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This is perfectly normal at the beginning of the relationship! I felt this with my soon-to-be fiancé about 4 years ago! 😍 but the most important thing to remember is let GOD lead you! Don't lead yourself! We can get caught off guard and satan can attack us in weird ways. Be on guard always! With my man, at the beginning we were amazing! (Neither of us were putting God at the center, even though He was in the relationship) and we thought everything was fine. Then we realized we really needed God in the middle and didn't need to idolize each other over God. So we started doing that, and satan started seeing red flags everywhere! Of course. He didn't want us to follow God.

So for many months, almost a year, we had arguments and satan would try his hardest to split us apart. Satan even worked through my boyfriend's parents to try and convince me to leave. But we let God lead us both and he brought us through those trials! Don't always expect perfection in relationships, even godly ones! Because often satan will attack us and make us think "well is this really the man I want to be with?" But remember, God will let you know whether or not to stay. Keep in His Word and keep Him at the top of your life and relationships ALWAYS and He will bless you beyond compare!! I promise!! I am so glad I stayed with my man! Even through the pain. Because now I can look forward to our engagement and wedding day with confidence through God. (:

Hope this helped some! (:

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DF and I met on OKcupid, and we were completely head over heels before we even met. Go with your gut!

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Have you ever met him face to face? I know you said he lives in your hometown, but depending on how big of a town you came from...it's possible to have never met. Also, how did you initially meet him? There are a lot of different factors to consider in deciding if it's too fast. Just remember, if you met him online, people are a whole lot different on the phone and online than they are in person. It's OK to have the feelings you are having,  just be careful :)

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I met my boyfriend online and was honestly feeling that way about him only weeks into talking (before I'd heard his voice or seen a picture of him, even.) he felt the same way but luckily for us at the time he kept it really cool and casual. We didn't start an official relationship until 5 months later once we'd been spending time on the phone and we'd met in person. It's been a year since we met and things are still great! You haaaave to take it slow, though. Get to know him, be a friend before anything else. Dating is so much more pleasant when you're best friends before! Make sure you keep your eyes open for how you're really feeling and any red flags. It's easy to get caught in infatuation and then a few months later feel stuck in a relationship.

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