Does any have this problem?

Leslie • Married 3 years, ob/GYN nurse, first time mom:) overwhelmed!!!
So, I find myself getting really irritated when I talk to my mom or MIL and they are like well I did with you as a baby and things were fine. Especially with my mom I say I don't want ceretain things or don't want my baby to do something and she is like well will see what happens when I have her alone and your not here. It can be about the smallest thing and it goes right through me! It's like I just want to make the decision for my daughter and you should respect whatever that is! Why does it bother me so bad!!! Most people who offer unwelcomed opinions I just let it roll off me!