Well I'm taking a LOA from ttc. Ever since I had my ectopic Dec 2014 I have had such irregular periods and I'm just going to get on birth control to try and regulate my periods. I'm going to focus on work, soon nursing classes, my marriage, and obviously the kiddos. I've just been depressed lately and we should really wait on adding a new bundle of joy. We have to focus more on fighting to get custody of the kids (mothers should not be able to reproduce-druggies). Also we have a very active 10 year old with choir, church, school, schools functions. Plus the 1 year old and our 2 month old. Honestly I think woman who want to become mothers should have to take a test to become a parent. SMH.