Is it bad that I wish this?

Lets start off with this if you are anti gay please stop reading now. Ok now to the question is it bad that I am hopin for a homosexual son because my husband is so close minded? He says that if we have a girl that was gay he wouldn't mind but he won't "put up with that shit" if it's a boy. My opinion is love who you want and I have no right to tell who you can or cannot love.