Retelling people

Afrer my sono at 8 weeks 6 days and doc confirmed strong heartbeat I sought out a cute and special way to announce my pregnancy.  I postedmy announcement on facebook a week later.  
When we discovered that our baby had died at 12+ weeks we didn't know how to unannounced it so we posted this pic
It has been a month now and I have recently ran into people who are stillcongratulating  me and txt me if I know what Im having yet.  
I just got to a point where i can talk about it without crying- but only when i want to talk about it... 
Do i need to relive this everytime or do i need to repost something? :-/