We just can't get on the same page with sex, he expects an aggressive porn star that cums and squirts, but does no work at it. He lays like a starfish and does nothing but I have be loud and wild. When we talk about it He acts like he does nothing wrong, just me. He is never satisfied and expects to much. I am at the point where I don't want add with him, but I'm always so horny. Its like work. I don't see this issue getting better, he its very stubborn..what do I do, ultimatums don't work