abortion or not? Help me

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I don't feel ready.
I'm 22 years old with no family near me (live overseas).
I told my mom today she says that she also thinks it's not the right timing.. My entire family wouldn't approve and I'm pretty sure my sister will stop talking to me completely.
The stress with my SO is beyond bearable we fight everyday now. And I just opened my own business.
I'm scared I'll regret it for life but I feel like I should be happier and more confident if it was right.
I'm so scared and alone
Anyone with the same experience? Please I'm crying for days help me
I'm five weeks now

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Do whatever is best for YOU. Listen to no one else. Your body, your choice😊 Good luck honey

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Please please PLEASE don't listen to these people saying abortion is murder. Good lord. You have to do what is right for you. Talk to your significant other, talk to a counselor, talk to anyone you feel you should. Please don't let your family decide this for you. If you decide to have this baby they'll get over it. If you decide not to, they'll get over it. This isn't about anyone but you and your significant other. 
If you truly feel you aren't ready for a child, no one should force you to have one.
I can't say you won't regret an abortion. I've heard many women say it's something they regret every day. I've also heard women say they regret having unwanted children. It's so much better to do what is best for you than to subject an innocent child to resentment. Only you can make this decision.
Best of luck, you're in my thoughts.

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Its your choice. Dont let anyone influence your decision it's entirely up to you. All the best 💕

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If you're not ready you're not ready. You can choose to parent, you can choose adoption, or you can choose abortion. There is no shame in any choice you make. Everything will be okay, even if you don't think it will be right now. If you need to you can go to the clinic and ask questions. They offer a wide range of services, including prenatal care, counseling, and abortion.

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If it's not the right time for you, put it up for adoption and give another family the chance they may not be able to have otherwise.

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That is totally your decision. If you're not ready then don't have a baby. Don't feel pressured into adoption because other women can't have children, that is not your responsibility and there are PLENTY of children in the system. We are not at a lack of children to adopt, people just have a desire to have newborns but won't adopt that 8 year old child. I think if you wanted a child that bad it shouldn't matter their age but to each their own. It's your body and your life. You might end up regretting having the child because it is a set back. My mom wishes she had waited to have children because she struggled.

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If you arnt ready, then don't force this responsibility upon your self.

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i would do what feels right, you will always have those holy rollers telling you its murder and yadda yadda yadda. Dont listen to them because its your body and your choice. Its easy for them to say dont do it but they are not the ones caring or providing for the child, you are. And some people just arent strong enough for adoption. I choose not to have an abortion in 2009 and choose adoption instead. I was dead set on adoption until the day after i gave birth and went to see him at the nicu, long story short my heart couldnt do it and i have a gorgeous five year old. Im pro choice and i feel you do what you feel is best and ignore the negative people. Good luck!

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You will never look your sweet child in the eyes and think "I regret keeping you". But if you are already doubting the abortion you will probably regret it for the rest of your life. It will be hard, stressful, demanding, but so worth it when you hold your baby for the first time. Think of YOURSELF and your CHILD before any one else. Do not let others feelings influence you. Good luck, I hope you come to a decision that's right for you.

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You really shouldn't be asking that on here. This is a very personal choice and one you need to be ok. Not because we say it is or not. Anyone that votes on this is a douche nozzle. No one has to live with your choice. IT'S YOUR LIFE AND YOURS ALONE!!!!! Do what's best for you and never let anyone make you feel bad for what you've chosen. Good luck hun!

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