I make sure I don't get too comfortable with being comfortable. I pull my weight around the house, cook, clean and pay bills. He always does his half so everything is not all on one person. I don't have to ask he just do his job as a man. He doesn't ask much but a meal... Very simple.... and excepts his mistakes. He is so awesome...I truly feel like God was saving one of the best for me....Topshelf. Comment about your awesome other half