My husband is 30. I'm 31. We are  talking about trying for a baby this year, after he gets a better job. He rarely even looks for jobs. He's a muscian/artist and he constantly talks about those things, but I'm afraid he will never be that excited about kids or finding a better job to help pay off his student loans and help support our family more. How long did it take for your husband to get excited about starting a family? Did he ever get excited about it?